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Question....
First off- what kind of doctor did you go to? If it was an ob/gyn that could have been the problem. Most of the time they understand pap smears, birth control, and delivering babies- but don't have a clue about infertility stuff. I don't know how many times I have heard woman say that they were given a clean bill of health, or handed a 6 month supply of clomid and told to have at it! I did it for four years and I was so frustrated- because no one seemed to really be listening to me.
I would suggest seeing someone that specializes in infertility- because they are better trained to handle these situations. Getting a sperm count is a good start- cause it very well could be him.
As far as you feeling depressed - I think that is perfectly normal and we have all felt that way at one time or another. Which is why boards like this are so great- because we all "get it."
My suggestion- at least once a month go out with your hubby and just have fun. Don't think about your timing, or your temp, or anything else. Enjoy each other- and then go home and have really good sex! Don't worry about positioning or whatever....just enjoy each other. It is so easy to get consumed in trying to get pregnant and we forget to actually live our lives.
Good luck- and I hope that you are able to find some answers
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