thanks for responding! it's true i just see this whole process so differently than i used to when we were first entering into it. i feel like it's a very beautiful experience to share with the kids. i know that no everyone wants to do things the same way an di understand that as well. this is something you should always follow your heart with.
anyway i'm planning on trying for number 2 in sept....we have 3 embies frozen.
i wish you luck in all you do!