[blaze6333]

Well, this is my first child also. I have 5 frosties left, but Dh is sure this is our only child. I am praying he will change his mind once she is here, and will let me have one more. In the FET world, it could take 2 trys or more for it to work. So, in a perfect world, we would try until we have none left getting our second child on the last try.(Like that would ever happen realisticly). So, if we have extras or if we decide not to have another baby, then I am going to donate to a couple or do embryo adoption. I like the idea of donating to someone I can read about and know their background, not so sure of letting the RE pick a couple. I would have to research both areas more, but I know that I could NEVER destroy them.
Good luck with your decision, its a hard one to make!!