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Taka, sorry I have been away. Things have just not been good, and I was kind of in seclusion.
OUr one embie survived the thaw, and then 2 days later RE said that it was only 3 cell, (shhould be 4 to 8) and then wait til monday (last) for an update again. Then he called and said it's a 10 cell, on day 5 which is not good, it means there is an abnormality, and we won't be able to transfer.
So of course, my questions are What? I see all kinds of 3 and 4 and 6 cell transfers... but I guess they are not on day 5.
So I have a consult today at 3:30. Basically, everything I started 9 months ago is done. and now it's time to stop, or start over with something more likely to give me success.
Egg donation is fine with me, but I'm not sure I'm gonna get the financing, as I've already borrowed 50K that we are all out of pocket on this. It's not the $$.. I want success, you know? We do have equity in our home, but in this market, we can't get it.
SO right now, I'm confused and don't know what to do/go from here. I don't seem to have a clear head.
How are things with everyone? I'll read back and see how things are going... I know some of you were geting ready to to DE cycle.
Hugs to all
Janet
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Me--42
DH--53 
together 16 yrs
4 SS
1st IVF 12/07 1 frozen and "banked"
2nd IVF 01/2008
2/08-4-08 cysts/cycles cancelled
IVF #3
5/30/08 2 eggs/no transfer
6.08 my frostie from Dec cycle... didn't make to blast, no transfer.
6/30/08 waiting to start DE cycle when $$ available
6/08-11/15/08 on a break, AF WAY off track since IVF (doesn't feel like 5 months!)
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