Heartwillforever - I know exactly what you are feeling. When I had my first u/s at 6 1/2wks, I was told there was no heartbeat. I had another u/s a week later & it was confirmed. I was absolutely heartbroken (my first pregnancy after ttc for 2 yrs). I had my d & c nine days ago. It was also my first surgery & I was very nervous. I had a great Dr. & that really helped. He also answered any questions I had as well. I also decided to have the d & c as I wanted chromosomal testing done to see if anything caused the m/c & help for future pregnancies. This site & everyone here has been such a good support for me & has really helped me through the last few weeks. People here know what you are going through & know that you're not alone
