[Passionscientist]

So since I began all this IF stuff, and having two back to back IVFs...I've put on a LOT of weight...add to that being pregnant and bloated...I just feel like I already look 4 months pregnant. So here's my dilemma...I can't hardly fit into my regular clothes anymore and I don't want to buy larger clothes...but maternity clothes make me look way more pregnant than I already am!! So since I'm not wanting to really tell my coworkers until I'm at least 8-12 weeks along...what would you do? Say screw it and wear the really comfy maternity tops and worry about the comments later? Or try to hide until after first trimester and just buy some bigger clothes?? Right now I'm wearing jackets and stuff...but it's kind of hot outside and not so comfortable!! But my other clothes are so tight and it has to be obvious to people that I've either gotten really fat or I'm pregnant...