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I am not exactly in your situation, but we do have 4 children and just got pregnant from a FET. We get the "You must be crazy" type comments all the time. We had lots of support from absolutely everybody with our IVF 2 yrs ago. With this FET, we got a lot of support, but also a lot of comments we could have done without.
Just remember that how many children you choose to add to your family is yours and DH's concern and no one elses. Just because some people can't imagine having more than 2 or 3 children, doesn't mean that is the ideal family for everyone else. You will know when your family is complete, and until then you should seek all the help you need.
I think a lot of times people don't realize their jokes can be hurtful. And medical professionals should be more sensitive of your feelings, but they are not always.
Hugs
Kimmy
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Me - Kimmy 34 DH - Danny 31
Adopted DD Brittany 15
Adopted DD Rosey 14
Twin DS Wyatt & Clay 2yrs!! - IVF Babies
TTC since 1999
MC #1 "Rachel" 8/03 (5-6 weeks) 
MC #2 "Nathaniel" 2/04 (11 weeks)
2/05-5/05 3 rounds clomid
MC #3 "Sarah" 7/05 (11 weeks) cromosomal testing came back normal
10/05-12/05 2 rounds clomid with IUI
IVF #1 Jan/Feb '06 -  4 snowbabies
2 blasts transferred
Betas - 14dpr - 208, 16dpr - 287, 18dpr - 463
Wyatt & Clay born 10/21/06
FET in June 
FET 6/25 - 2 thawed, 2 survived, 2 transferred  2 snowbabies still waiting
6/30 (5dp6dt)- very very faint + HPT
7/1 (6dp6dt) - Digital test says PREGNANT
7/3 Beta #1 (8dp6dt) - 65
7/7 Beta #2 (12dp6dt) - 189
7/10 Beta #3 (15dp6dt) - 479
7/17 - beancount - 1 little bean with a heartbeat  measures 5w5d
EDD March 14,2009
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