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Old 07-15-2008, 02:47 PM
kblythe kblythe is offline
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I have been through this twice, and it sucks more than words can say. Even if there was never a baby, it still counts as a loss in my book, and I think you should grieve as long as you need to.

Like you, I thought that I was destined to never have a baby. I underwent my last FET with donor embryos, and I was completely pessimistic to the point where I never even took an HPT, because I figured, why bother? But much to my surprise, I got pregnant with my last attempt. So sometimes miracles do happen, even for those of us convinced that we'll never have a baby.

Take care of yourself.

Kathryn.
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Me - 41 (argh!!!)
No DH, I'm aspiring to be a single mother!
Proud owner of Max, the wonder cat.

July '05, with DD (dear donor), MC at 7 wks
2 failed IUI cycles with follistim
1st IVF 5/07 -- chemical pregnacy
2nd IVF 7/07 --
FET with donor embryos on 10/23 on 11/6
FET with donor embryos on 11/26 -
12/7 beta 82
12/11 beta 232 -- fingers and toes crossed ...
12/17 beta 2,589
1/2 ultrasound one bean, measuring well, good heartbeat!
1/17 ultrasound. GREAT! One bean, wiggling around, measuring perfectly with a 185 HR


8/14 Baby Davis arrived! 8 lbs 6 oz and perfect in every way
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