Miss Salome!
Firstly let me say I am so sorry for your loss. I work as a paramedic so I see these tragedies unfold and I cannot imagine what you've been through. I hope you are surrounding by family and friends to give you comfort.
You have found some wonderful ladies here! They've helped me so much I can't even put it in words. I'm glad you found us!
As to donors, if you're looking for one that matches your husband in physical appearance then photo matching is probably your best bet. I've never actually been to any of the banks in person to know if they have photos you can look through but if you weren't already aware, Fairfax Cryobank is letting you see donor childhood photos free for all of July!!! So take advantage of that while you can!