I am so so sorry this happened to you both, it really is the most unfair thing in the world. You were alot further along than I was with my two losses but I can completely relate to the devastation and shock you are both going through right now.
As for getting pregnant again, after both my miscarriages I chose to try again only a couple of months later as I really wanted to start my family. But its been hard, when DH and I lost the second one I almost gave up completely. I'm now almost 32 weeks pregnant and I will say the fear and worry never ever goes away. I'm still a nervous emotional wreck...but we get by somehow. The desire for our babies wins out in the end I guess.
Meanwhile if you just need to chat we are all here for you and remember to take all the time you need to grieve as you would with any other family member.
