Erin, I'm so sorry this happened to you. I haven't been in your situation, but have grieved for other loved ones that have passed away. You need to give yourself some time to feel all the emotions that will surface. It's only been two days since your D&C, so of course you still feel like you have nothing to give to anyone else. You'll get there eventually. Just be kind to yourself and your DH as you both muddle through this very sad time.
Your

will come!