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Hubby and I are in general marriage counseling (My mom made me promise we would go for our first year of marriage, she asks all her kids to do it) and this is one topic we do touch on often. It still affects us both despite the fact we have Tristan now. We have learned that it is ok to talk about it and even still cry about it when we need to. My worries were all over the place while pregnant and while I tried not to worry too much so it wouldn't affect the baby, I knew until I held him in my arms nothing would calm me 100%.
Sometimes it's nice to talk to a 3rd party about personal things. Someone outside of things to get a prespective you hadn't thought of cause you are too close to the situation (if that makes sense) so if you are comfortable with couseling couldn't hurt.
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