[heather]

[quote=yobaby]
I guess we just have to try extra hard and treat them as the distinct individuals that they are. I find it hard right now because we are keeping the sex a surprise so I'm always just referring to them as "the twins".

We also kept the sex of the twins a surprise, it was great!! Hard at each ultrasound not to find out, but worth it in the end.

I too worry that I give to much attention to one baby, or that one baby feels left out. My daughter can feed herself her bottle, but my son doesn't so I feel like she notices that I hold/feed him more. In reality I am sure they don't notice-plus they love each other so much that mabey they don't care.