I know its hard to ignore her but this is your time for you and your DH to enjoy. Of course she is jealous you have something she had, her family. But what you and your DH need to do is expalin to the children not to tell their mother what goes on in our home because it none of her concern.
I have an ex DH with a new wife who had 2 more children with her. I had to explain the same thing to my boys and they understood.
I hope this little advice helps.
Congrats on your  and enjoy your next nine months.
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4 children from my 20's before tubal ligation
Had 3 IVF 's in in 2001 to 2002 all ended in 
June 2008 4th IVF
5th IVF in Sept.....
Acupunture, omega's and vit's.
Aug 10, 2008 started taking BCP's
Sept 2 , 2008 going in b/w & u/s ,starting Lupron
Sept 4, 2008 going in b/w , may start taking stims
Sept 12, 2008 Egg Retrieval
Sept 17 Egg Transfer
Sept 26, 2008 Beta HCG 85
Oct 3, 2008 HCG 2328
U/S on 10/13 We got 3
Baby A heartbeat was 105 and Baby B was 125, Baby C ?
U/S on 10/20
ER U/S 10/29 Baby A 158, Baby B 163, and Baby C 179
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