Let me just share with you a little piece of what I have to deal with on a daily basis....
My husband was previously married. He has 2 children, my DSS (14) and my DSD (10), both of whom we have had custody of for 4 months now. I'll just say that the mother is not quite all together, and truly can't bring herself to put the kids first when she had custody of them. The ex and I DO NOT get along!! I have tried in the past, but she is kniving (sp?) and has done nothing but cause problems. But, I love having kids here. It is not without its trials or tribulations, but what in life is that isn't worth it, right? They are great kids!!
So anyway, we find out the beta was positive yesterday, and DH and I wanted to wait to tell the kids, but a friend of ours spilled the beans by accident when she called my husbands phone to say congratulations and my DSS answered the phone. Needless to say, they sound alot alike since DSS hit puberty (haha...TMI).
Ofcourse, I knew that DSD would be calling her mother that night to say goodnight, and would be telling her.
Sooooo, I wake up this morning, and look on the computer and find this email to DH from the b*tch.....
"Is that what you really called me for yesterday was to give me the nausiating news? Just think of all of those sleepless nights, poopy diapers and bottles not to mention another 18 years and you will have another one to put through college....lucky you, so much for early retirement. So when did you have the reversal? When is the bundle of joy due to arrive? At least you will have built in babysitters, lol. I almost feel sorry for you because you probably want this one just as much as you wanted your first one.....3 kids guess you will need to buy a bigger house sooner rather then later..yikes......I get light headed just thinking about it all. I wish you all the best and I want to thank you for making me realize just how happy I am to be me!"
Do you believe this sh*t! I am so mad, steam is coming out of my ears. What right does she have? She is soooo pathetic. I want to write her an email so bad and say something to the fact that it's none of her darn business what we do. The fact that she actually took the time to write this email shows how truly pathetic she really is!! I am beyond words right now.
How should I handle this? How should DH handle this? I wanna go to her house and punch her I am so fed up with her. This process is stressful enough without her putting in her two cents and making it more stressful.
UUUUUGGGGGGHHHHHH!
What am I going to do?
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Tricia