dani - i am so sorry for your loss. i know how hard it is to deal with people when you can't get your mind off of what just happened. please do not feel bad about the getting things off your chest, that is what we are here for. i wish there was something something that i can say but remember how strong of a person you are and you will get thru this.
i am also sorry about your Dh's behavior, i agree, it was a little out of line. but they just deal with things different and i swear half the time they don't even think. i wish you all the best and please know that we are here for you, i pray that you find your strength and find peace
