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Dani, I am truly sorry about the sad news!! I totally understand you on your feelings and the need to get all this out of your chest.

I truly admire women like you and Jaime that after a m/c decided to go thru another IVF cycle. I am still trying to reorganize my strength and gather myself after my m/c.

I totally understand that you didn't want to be social... I work with customers (probably hundreds a day) and it was so hard the first days after m/c to smile and be nice that I could not be there. For a moment, I thought I was not going to be able to smile again at strangers. But, two weeks later I could spontaneously.... I was so happy to see that I could be ME again! This will also happen to you!!

An yes, men cope differently than us but they have the same feelings. Two days ago DH told me he felt very sad every time he saw a pregnant woman and that he has had body pains.

Jaime, I loved your words: "warrior sisters". Very inspiring! That's how I feel many times. When I daydream, trying to escape from "what it is", I wish we could just conceive naturally and have wonderful pregnancies. I know that we will suceed and become mothers SOON!!