[molls57]

My dh and I became good friends with a couple almost 2 years ago. Come to find out they were married a week before us and we actually announced to each other the same night we were ttc. We would talk about how we seemed to be in the same place in life and how great it would be for us to be pregnant at the same time. Come to find out we both were facing infertility. It took her several rescheduled appointments to get into a RE. I was fortunate enough to get in the same month I was referred. At my first appt. the RE could not find anything wrong and we did our 1st IUI a couple days later. Our friends were less fortunate and it looked like it might be a long road of treatments for them. Some how this story reversed. They are now expecting their 1st baby at the beginning of the year and my dh and I are waiting for the time for our 4th IUI. My dh told me their good news the same day of a negative test. Since then we have gone out with this couple a few times and I wish we didn't. It seems like all we talk about is their good news. I feel that they are not sensitive to my feelings especially when they were in the same place just a few months ago and know how it feels. My dh does not understand why I do not want to hang out with them anymore. I hate feeling this way but I cannot help it I am upset that I lost the one person I could talk w/that understood exactly what I was going through. That sounds so selfish.

me - 24, endometriosis
dh -25, great
ttc -18 months
2/08 - hsg. everything clear
4/08 - 1st appt w/RE after only waiting a couple wks
nothing found wrong
4/08 - 1st IUI w/no meds
5/08 , began repronex, 2nd IUI, 2nd
6/08 cyst found on ovary, began bc pills, began
repronex again after bc pills
7/08 3rd IUI on the 4th of July! resulted
8/08 1st laparoscopy. cyst removed worse than
thought. more endo found. damage to a tube.
Waiting for AF to begin repronex again & 4th IUI