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Old 08-30-2008, 07:08 PM
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Feeling that way is completely normal. A week or so after my D&C I found out on the same day that a girl I sorta know from another forum who had been married for like a minute was pregnant (and got that way after getting married) and that my cousin and his wife had just had a baby. I didn't even know she had been pregnant.

Allow yourself to feel any way you want to on a given day. Just be careful not to let those negative emotions take over your life. You'll get your baby and when you do, it'll make everything you've gone through completely worth it.

Best of luck to you in your upcoming IVF cycle.
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Me (Jenny): 28 - PCOS, hypothyroid
DH (James): 29 - Slightly low morphology

TTC #1 since January 2005; 1st year and a half wasted with a worthless doctor

2007
2 failed Clomid cycles
Ectopic pregnancy

2008
3/5 - new cycle - Clomid and Follistim
3/31 - positive hpt
4/2 - 1st beta - 48.5!
4/4 - 2nd beta - 113.8!
4/7 - 3rd beta - 487!!
4/11 - 4th beta - 2987
4/16 - 1st u/s - 1 beautiful healthy peanut in exactly the right place!
4/23 - 2nd u/s - everything still great. Saw and heard the heartbeat! 122bpm!
5/6 - 3rd u/s- Absolutely amazing. Measuring 8w6d, 172bpm; released to OB
7/21 - Anatomy Scan - It's a GIRL!!
11/26 - Kathryn Lakhari Ann born at 38w1d due to pre-eclampsia! 8lb 4oz, 20 1/2" long

2009
1/2 - 11lb 5oz, 23" long, and completely perfect



"The prize is always worth the rocky ride."
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