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You know what always makes me happy, when I look at families who have had the same issue as me (ex. Jon and Kate Plus 8) and were successfull in their time. I look at some aunts and uncles who have kids and I NEVER knew that they had fertility issues. I find out now, that I have these issues, they also had the same issue as me. I have one aunt who was trying for 8 years! I mean we don't knwo the trials and tribulations people went through to get to their BFP... maybe they had like 3 or 4 miscarriages... or maybe they were just going through fertility issues.
I know that I will be a mother one day... i try not to think that others are so lucky or you know I am not getting what they are... I hate when I feel like taht.
I do want to say taht feeling that way is normal though. I mean who woudlnt' be upset if the chick next door was having baby after baby and you could't have one! It's very frustrating, but God works in mysterious ways! (For example, maybe God gave her baby after baby and then one day she can't support her kids anymore and she left them all to you!... just a thought... )
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