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As far as I know MOST agencies won't allow you to move forward with adoption while under-going Infertility treatments. I know it's CRAZY, but they think you need to greive for the loss of bio kids before you have an adopted child.
That being said it takes about 3 months or so to get all the paperwork together, so at least you can be getting all the paperwork together? We adopted first so that the IVF treatments wouldn't be as stressful and at the end of the day we knew we still had our son.... I think it helped emotionally! Good luck, and I know it's so hard. Infertility SUCKS.
Adoption however is WONDERFUL, my son is so funny, and he makes us laugh every day, I can't wait for you to have that too, no matter if it's bio, or adopted!
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Dre
Me: 34 (Issue: Endo)
DH: 33
WONDERFUL Adopted DS 2005: 3 years old
3/5: 1st IVF: 5 day transfer of two blastocyst (1 grade 1, 1 grade 2)
*TIME FOR BETA SCARE
3/14: 1st BETA 77 
3/16: 2nd BETA 105
3/19: 3rd BETA 155 
3/23: 4th BETA 631
4/2: 1st US = 6 weeks 3 days; 1 Heartbeat/w/baby in sac (Oh what a feeling!)
8/10 ~ Hospitalized for Vasa Previa at 25 weeks for 3 months
DD born 3 weeks early @37wks.
www.vasaprevia.org/
FET
2 Embies on Ice ~ 1 grade 2, 1 grade 3
ET:7/24/08 BETA
7/31: POAS in AM, FAINT +
8/1: 1st Beta = 41
8/4: 2nd BETA =117
8/20: U/S @ 6 weeks 4 days (No HB)
8/25: U/S @ 7 weeks 2 days (No HB)
8/26: D&C 
Jan. 2009 ~IVF #2
+ BETA
Twins
3/4/09 D&C
*Diagnosised with: Pregnancy related antiphospholipid antibody, Hasimoto's Disease
5/21/09 ~ + HPT
TWINS AGAIN NATURALLY (w/5% chance of natural pregnancy)
2 Identical BOYS (shared placenta)
Heprin 2x's a day (YUCK)
EED: 1/21/10
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