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Talking about these issues can be so hard. If it comes to it, you may want to think about going to a counselor who can help faciliate/mediate the conversation. DH and I did that when we were talking about doing IVF. We kept getting stuck and having the same conversation over and over again. Having a third person who was not emotionally involved and who could help interpret made all the difference. She had a lot of experience with infertility issues so really understood the issues.
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DH:44
IUI#1 - 2/08 - 
IUI#2 - 4/17/08 - 
M/C - 5/6/08
IVF#1 - Lupron Microdose Flare
ER - 8/7 - 5 eggs, 4 fertilized
ET - 8/10 - 4 embabies
Beta #1 - 8/25 - 1,238
Beta #2 - 8/27 - 2,047 - so far so good
Beta #3 - 8/29 - 4,138 - yeay
U/S #1- 9/5 - OMG! It's twins!!!
U/S #3- 9/24 - No heartbeats. Lost both twins.
D&C - 9/26
IVF #2 - Jan 2009 - Lupron Microdose Flare
1/13 - ER - 2 eggs, both fertilized
1/16 - ET - 2 embabies
1/30 - BFN
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