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I think that we all have that one person out there for us and if and when you are lucky enough to find them you try your best to hold on to them. There is no perfect marriage or relationship. You have to work at it just like anything else!
Do not settle for Mr Right now in order to have a baby. There are other options out there for you to pursue if you want a child, and if and when you find the right person they will accept you with that child no matter how that child came to be a part of your life.
I have a 8 yr old dd that I adopted while in my first marriage. The marriage did not work out for me nor was it the best for her. I made the choice to leave that relationship knowing that in order to have any more I'd either have to adopt again or go through IVF. My dh had no children prior to our marriage, and after my ex relinqushed his parental rights, he adopted her four days before our ds who was conceived through IVF was born.
Dont live with someone just because you can deal with them after settleing for less. Be with the one you can't live without!
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Me-31 endo
DH- 43 low morphology
DD - 7 ( my first love)
 - CoCo dd's Chow Chow
04/27 Started Stims
05/11 Retrieval ( IVF W/ ICSI)
05/14 Transfered 3 embryos
05/26 Beta #1 17.9
05/28 Beta # 2 55
05/30 Beta # 3 237 
06/03 Beta #4 2200
06/05 Beta #5 2970
06/07 Beta # 6 4400
1rst U/S One sac measuring at 5w3d
large questionable area
06/14 2nd U/S measuring 6w4d with heartbeat in 120's
06/22 3rd U/S measuring 7w6d with heartbeat at 176
06/27 4th U/S measuring 8w 3d with heartbeat at 175.
07/05 5th U/S Hb at 155, baby moving around
07/12 6th U/S HB in the 150s
07/19 NT Test----Fine
08/30 It's a Boy 
10/11 - Diagnosed with Vasa Previa with velamentous insertion of the umbilical cord. Ordered on complete bed rest.
11/23- Jayden arrives at 7:36pm...at 30 weeks and 1 day gestational
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