Grumpy men!

You poor thing as if you didn't have enough to worry about. Kristen's right to suggest a helper but if you need to keep your pennies for the twins, maybe a local pastor, priest, imam or rabbi would know a kindly someone who could help out for an hour or two. Daddy isn't very fair to vent with his brother but I bet it'll do him a power of good in the end if he can struggle through and become a better parent. He better be fully operational before the twins come along needing special care! Anyway, pray for celestial intervention and I believe you won't be dissapointed but if you're not of the heavenwards persuasion, be on the safe size and leave his *** alone until you get a replacement ! For your little girl and you, just lots of hugs -

Cherry Berry (2WW countdown)
P.S., maybe lest he's sore to have you notice his poor parenting skills, try , "she usually likes this....", "she usually responds to that...", "maybe you could try.... with her instead", "your mother said this or that used to work with you ......??"