I had a m/c about 6 weeks ago... and while Im doing a whole lot better... im still torturing myself trying to figure out what went wrong ! The RE had done a tissue analysis... and found nothing "normal products of conception". This gives me nothing to hold on to.
So I start going through a list of what??? Did I eat wrong ? Did I carry something heavy ? Did i stress out too much ? Am I overweight ? Did I inhale some chemical cleaners? what what what ?
Im a terribly rational person and just desperately need to find a scientific explanation of why this m/c happened. "it just does sometimes" doesnt help comfort me... but perhaps nothing will.
We are going to try again in Dec/Jan in our 2nd IVF... and Im scared to go through the process knowing things can (and have) gone wrong !
Any advice to stop driving myself insane would *really* help !!
to all !!