Anj ~ I know how you feel, I had a ate a sandwich and wonder if it was the meat (you're only to eat cooked meat), and I drank coffee, so I wonder, what if I wouldn't have done that....
BUT ALL OF THESE things I did with my first and she's here now and healthy, so then I tell myself it probably wasn't that.....
It can drive you mad.
The only thing I can suggest is ONLY thinking about the future (sure there will be days or moments of being sad), but what I am trying to do is focus on 2009! Get dates and plans and such....
We have a 2009 IVF FORUM...
GO TO:
INFERTILITY TREATMENT
IVF
2009 IVF
It might help to have a support system that is moving forward?
Other things that helped me were to read infertility books of people who went through what I have.
Waiting for Daisy
Silent Grief
Will you be busy for the holidays, that could help or make it worse.
HUGS....
