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Old 12-06-2008, 08:46 PM
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Why?

My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 3 years. It is something I want more than anything. However, adoption is an open alternative to me if I am never able to conceive. I have 9 adopted siblings, so it is second nature to me. My husband, on the other hand, while open to the idea of adopting, refuses to accept the idea of adopting a child outside of our nationality... And since this is nothing new to me and my family I don't understand. It breaks my heart to think that he and I are not on the same page aout this. A child is a child, no matter what! I have a strong feeling that his family plays a large part in his stance on this subject, and I am cannot understand how he can be so closed-minded. Please let me know if any of you hve encountered this same problem and how you have dealt with it?
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