I think if you feel like you still want a baby, you should still try....but if you don't feel like you can go through everything again....MAN I don't even think I can give advice on this one. I'm having a hard time after my 1st mc. I guess you need to follow whatever your heart is telling you. All I can say is that I wish you the best in whatever decision you make.
If you are considering adoption what about not trying for a newborn? My aunt was actually told she couldn't have anymore children when she was trying & at the age of about 43, BOOM...healthy baby girl. You never know what could happen.
~Melissa

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Me-32 - 38-40 day cycle
DH-37 - low motility & morphology

Fur baby - 5 year old Bengal, Tai

1st time PG 4/08 - was supposed to be 10 wks PG
6/2/08...u/s, no heartbeat

stopped at 7 weeks
Missed MC on 6/08
Appt. with RE on 8-28
1st u/s - 10/2/09!! - Everything is good to go...Gonal F - 75iu
2nd u/s CD7 - 10/6/09 to check follies all under 10mm
3rd u/s CD10 - 10/9/09 - 11mm & 12.5mm are the leads, Gonal goes up to 112.5
4th u/s CD12 - 10/11/09 - 13 & 15.5mm are the leads...lining 8.7
5th u/s CD14 - 10/13/09 -13.5mm, 12.5, 10mm, 18.5mm, 12.5 & 10...lining at 12.7, LH- 3.7 Est.- 690
Overdril -10/13/09
1st IUI CD16- 10/15/09!!!! post wash 93mil! 54%,3%
Beta - 10/29/09 -
AF - 10-30-09
1st u/s 11/2/09 -112.5 Gonal f
2nd u/s 11/6/09 - 12 on left, 9 on right,Biggest is 12.5!!
3rd u/s 11/8/09 - back down to 75Gonal f,
15mm, 12.5 are leads..
4th u/ 11/10/09 - 19mm on left a couple of
16ishmm on right
2nd IUI 11/12/09 - 213mil post wash, 57% motility!