[bitsniu]

Hi all I just wanted to join a group of supportive women to help me through this time of sadness and nerves of starting over. Here is my story in a nutshell, dh and I have been ttc over 2 years. IWth our 1st cycle of IVF w/icsi I found out on 2/2 that I was my hcg was 272 and on 2/5 it went up to 1393! I was so excited! I thought wow I am one of the lucky ones that is able to have a baby on the 1st try. I never thought (call me selfish or nieve) that what I was about to find out would happen to me but it did. Sadly on 2/6 I started to spot and went to the Re where they did an ultrasound, saw the sac (empty but reasured me everything was ok because it was too early to see anythign). I went for bw 2/9 and got the news my hcg went down to 380. The nurse said I am going to miscarry and to call when I get my period. After the RE reviewed my chart the nurse called and said after this period I will need one more and then I can start another cycle end of April. I am going to take this time to continue getting healthy and spending time with the dh. I have to ask though why do they keep telling me "it is a great sign you were able to get pregant"...I cant help thinking why is that a good sign, I mean what is the point of getting pregnant if you cant carry to term, how is that good news????? Sorry for the long book, I will catch up on all the other posts tonight. for all!__________________