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Old 02-21-2009, 04:14 PM
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Heart it's happened

The bad economy has reached my house. My DH has been cut from full-time to 3 days a week.

I am freaking out. I don't know what this means for us as far as our adoption plans.

I don't know if you read my blog post yesterday - it was before I got the news about the cutbacks at DH's work.

I was posting about there never being a good time to be pregnant or a good time to adopt and I am afraid this is the worst time to be trying to adopt. Little did I know.

I wanna cry.

I've been advised not to tell our social worker because this may all pass quickly and they will hopefully go back to full-time soon. And SW would be non the wiser.

But also the way things have been going, I don't see us beeing choosen to be APs anytime soon anyway.

I'm trying not to panic, but I am, and I'm not. We've both been totally unemployed before and managed, but we weren't trying to adopt.

I just want this whole thing to blow over. I know, this too shall pass. I hope it hurries!

Love,
J

PS I'm not posting this "news" on any of my blogs because I don't want the wrong person to find out, but I know this is a safe and supportive place to post. I hope everyone else is weathering this economic storm well. *hugs*
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me 44, DH 35
08.2000 started TTC
2001-2005 "unexplained IF," countless failed clomid cycles

02.14.05 miscarriage
09.17.05 miscarriage
11.07.05 PCOS diagnosed (2000 Metformin ER)
05.29.06 IUI #1 - failed
06.23.06 IUI #2 - failed
10.06.06 NI + follistim #4 - failed
end of treatment
TTC au natural...

11.22.06 BFP
12.20.06 cornual pregnancy ended @ 9 weeks (miscarriage)
02.06.07 ok to TTC again
11.2007 low ovarian reserve
01.2008 TTC au natural still...

........

08.2008 hoping to adopt (domestic newborn)

10.24.08 1st home study meeting
11.14.08 2nd home study meeting (the dreaded home visit)
11.21.08 meeting with adoption attorney
12.05.08 3rd home study meeting
12.24.08 received finalized Home Study report!
waiting to be matched...


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