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Julie - you are right when you share that there might never be a good time to get pregnant, a good time to adopt, etc. - we all have our "ideal plan" and I imagine all of us on here have had at least a dozen or so of those, but when the time is right things will fall into place and a baby will be placed in our arms.
Although I'm not a frequent attendee at church, I do believe that God doesn't give us more than we can handle ... that doesn't mean I haven't questioned him myself a few times ... but there is a plan for all of us. My MIL states that "every pot has it's lid" ... I know that I found my DH later in life but he is now my "lid". Together we will find our "lid" as a married couple which will be our beautiful child.
I hope that things turn around with your DH's job ... everything is one day at a time and maybe today or tomorrow that too shall turn around.
Hugs,
Theresa
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myself 42, DH 37
TTC 6+ years
IUI attempts: 11/04, 3/05 & 4/05 
IVF #1
11/7/06  D&C at 9 1/2 weeks
IVF #2
3/19 - Beta
Took some time off ... trying again with new RE
IVF #3
12/3/07 - miscarriage #2 D&C (day before my 41st birthday  )
July 2008 - After taking some time to decide which road to take we decided to move on to domestic adoption and are thrilled 
September 2009 - May 2009 - completed homestudy & got approved ... finalized profile and completed applications with several agencies
May/June 2009 - active with 2 agencies and a referral company - YIPEE!
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