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Old 04-26-2009, 02:56 PM
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Unhappy No sex

Hi everyone. Im looking for advice on how you all got past bad news and became hopeful again.

Found out last week DH sperm count is very low we're gearing up for a ton of tests and interventions to make a baby. My #1 emotion is anger. A lot of anger.

We tried to have sex this weekend and it wasnt working for me and Im really bothered by that. Its like all I can think about is WHY US!? And I feel like sex is pointless if we probably will never make a baby that way. And I know there's way more to sex than conception but I cant be logical with myself. I wish I could snap out of this.

Im sorry I know Im rambling. I feel like Im losing my mind here. How did you all get past bad news? Anyone else experienced anything like this? When does it start to get easier?
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~*Laura
Me: 26 Irreg cycles
DH: 28 Soul mate.
1st SA April 09 950,000/ml
2nd SA June 09 64 mil/ml DH now off Clomid
3rd SA July 09 53 mil/ml 71% motility.
Married: 5-29-05
I've wanted to be a wife and mother my whole life. This is my purpose.

2 incredibly loved and spoiled furbabies
Noah 5 (Boxer)
Nalla 3 (Boxer)

August 08 Yay! Ready to start trying.
May 09 RE consult. LOVE MY RE. Clomid for me and DH.
June 09 HSG ~ All clear
Clomid Round #1
July 18 13 dpo

Two beautiful lines!!!!
I can't believe it

Beta #1 15 dpo ~ 175
Beta #2 17dpo ~ 398
August 10th U/S 1 little sweet pea HR 132
Sept 14th 4D U/S. Amazing! HB 170
Nov 9 20 week u/s. Camera shy baby. We didnt want to know gender anyway.
Dec 8 We get to see the baby again

DUE March 29, 2010

It's a SURPRISE



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