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Old 05-02-2009, 07:16 PM
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Heart update

In March/April the first birth mom finally reviewed our profile. Unfortunately we were not chosen. So it took us 3 months to get to our first profile review.

Last week, our SW called with an unusual situation. THREE siblings: a 6-year-old boy and 4-year-old b/g twins! I was surprised that our SW would call us with something like this, but then she explained that it's a foster to adopt situation. Fostering with the intent to adopt. The birth parent's rights were terminated at the birth of the twins.

So, we said, yes, we'd like to be considered.

Last Thursday, SW called to say the current foster mom (who BIT the little girl) is fighting to keep the eldest boy. The kids are in temporary foster care, but now it will take longer since the case may go to court.

Our SW says she probably won't get custody since she inflicted bodily harm.

I am finding it VERY diffifult not to get emotionally involved with each situation that comes before us. Very similar to being pregnant and hoping not to miscarry.

Hope you are all well. Sorry I've been away so long, busy busy busy. Also trying to use "social networking" as a way to connect with a birth mom.

Please feel free to continue to PM me with your questions, you know I'm open to share

Love and hugs,
Julie

(yes, I said THREE!)
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me 44, DH 35
08.2000 started TTC
2001-2005 "unexplained IF," countless failed clomid cycles

02.14.05 miscarriage
09.17.05 miscarriage
11.07.05 PCOS diagnosed (2000 Metformin ER)
05.29.06 IUI #1 - failed
06.23.06 IUI #2 - failed
10.06.06 NI + follistim #4 - failed
end of treatment
TTC au natural...

11.22.06 BFP
12.20.06 cornual pregnancy ended @ 9 weeks (miscarriage)
02.06.07 ok to TTC again
11.2007 low ovarian reserve
01.2008 TTC au natural still...

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08.2008 hoping to adopt (domestic newborn)

10.24.08 1st home study meeting
11.14.08 2nd home study meeting (the dreaded home visit)
11.21.08 meeting with adoption attorney
12.05.08 3rd home study meeting
12.24.08 received finalized Home Study report!
waiting to be matched...


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Hope gets us to the bridge, faith will get us across. ~ my friend’s grandma
I have been pregnant, I WILL have a baby! ~ Julie

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