hi everyone. i am new to these forums and was referred by a fellow pregnancy loss mama. a few months ago i lost my little girl
at exactly 20 weeks. the docs say ptl triggered by placental infection, but i was also being watched for ic, so it's not totally clear. we are grieving while also thinking about trying again. i would only try again if it was with a really good care provider who would watch me like a hawk, and if i felt really super informed. i did not have a good experience with the docs last time.
can anyone here suggest:
- good questions to ask a peri/MFM about my risks and preg management before i ttc again?
- or, a really caring, competent, skilled MFM/peri to work with on a pregnancy after a loss, who practices in the boston area?
i would be really grateful to find the right doctor as i really want to try again but am super scared of everything going wrong a second time. thanks, everybody.
