hi byrd, i'm also new. i lost my girl at 20w due to ptl - placental infection/abruption. it was less than 3 months ago and i've only had 1 AF. we are talking about trying again, going to see a specialist in a couple of weeks, and researching better care providers than the one i had.
we were going to wait until after her due date to try or think about trying, but in the end we decide to get as much info as we can now about my risk factors and about how another pregnancy would be managed differently. i think having all the info is a good thing and talking with your doc can help you know what to expect the next time around. and you always have the choice to seek out an alternate doc if you feel this one isn't giving you what you need.
good luck!
