View Single Post
  #62 (permalink)  
Old 05-18-2009, 06:46 PM
lisa_kev's Avatar
lisa_kev lisa_kev is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Posts: 365
Quote:
Originally Posted by maybebaby1
Yay Lisa!!! How exciting! So today was your first IUI and tomorrow is your second? I can't wait to hear what your SD counts are!!! Do you feel so much better doing back to back? I swear it's gonna work for you this time, you have one GREAT mature egg and you have all your ovulation hours covered! I can't wait to hear all about it!
They rescheduled my follow-up appointment for the 27th. So I am interested in what they have to say. As for my hubby, we have started talking more, but things are not getting better. He has been really mean to me lately and insulting. I told him I will not deal with that and deserve better than to be treated this way. I'm kindof at a stand still and don't know what to do. I think deep inside I hold resentment of not being able to have more children and that he has the issue and is also the one bringing in the finances which can't fund for us to keep trying. I know that is SO wrong of me, but I can't help it. I don't know where this is going to leave us I am just trying to get through the day at this point.
I am for you and thinking !!!! I can't wait for you to tell me you are you guys deserve it!! I will check back to hear from you! I want to know about how you IUI went!!!

Maybebaby1:

Hi! Glad you logged on to post. Yup, had my IUI today. The count was 10 mill after wash and I forget what the mobility was, 49% *I think*? I had a different doctor this time and to be honest, I felt like I was being rushed. Last time I was given the info without hesitation and this time I had to ask. I don't know what the pre-wash count was, but will surely find out tomorrow so I stay on-top of Xytex. Maybe TMI but after I woke this morning, I went to go pee and I was wet more than normal, and all the way to the appointment I kept feeling like I was leaking. Glad I wore a panty liner. I triggered last night at 6PM with the Ovidrel, find it hard to believe I ovulated that soon. I don't know what to think.

Tomorrow is another day and the second IUI. Mom is going with me, I need the company. I drive a little over 3 hrs one-way for the IUI's and I'm sooooooo tired right now. Since Sunday I've been traveling. Tomorrow will be the 3rd day of going up there.

Gosh I hope it's our time. DH and I talked some over dinner and he's so scared of multipules doing IVF, not to mention the cost. I have the same reservations. We're just praying that this works. I cannot see us doing in debt and having nothing to show for it. I just pray that it's meant to be. I ended up getting teared up and he supported me with a bear hug. I'm just so scared.

I'm so sorry you're dealing with a non-supportive hubby. I just don't know what to say about that. Financial stress, fertility stress, relationship stress...maybe what you need is a vacation!

I'm off to bed to get some zzzzzzzz's. Thank you for being so supportive, we gals need to stick together!

__________________
ME 31-Irregular cycles, otherwise OK
DH 38- Perfect, but no swimmers-cancer survivor
Married to my best friend since 12-05-1998
TTC #1 for over 9 years
2 Himalayan fur-children
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Zero fertility coverage due to DH's diagnosis
2 IUI's April & May '09 both

#1 IVF w/ICSI

ER 9/12/09 got 21 eggies, 14 mature, 13 fertilized
ET 9/17/09 we transferred 2 (grade 1) blasts
Two blasts made it to freeze, hold on frosties
9-30-09 1st beta (13dp5dt) 405 10-26-09 D&C @ 8weeks

FET sometime in Jan/Feb 2010
Reply With Quote