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I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I could take away the pain that you are going through right now. It is devastating. Give yourself time to heal and remember your baby.
I have not had an intrauterine infection but have had both early and late pregnancy losses. Tying again seemed scary and overwhelming. You never look at pregnancy again with the awe and wonder that you did in the beginning.
It sounds like your OB feels that this is an individual occurrence which is good. I know that I found comfort in going to a high risk OB after my losses. This helped me both psychologically and physically. I was monitored very closely. I feel fortunate to have gone on to have 3 healthy children after this. I remember family members trying to dissuade me from getting pregnant again to spare me additional pain. They had the best of intentions but sometimes loved ones' words hurt.
I think you should try again when you and your doctor feel you are ready. Maybe you could consult an RE since you mentioned it took you 4 years before as well as a high risk OB later to see if you should have any work-up regarding the infection.
Remember that you are not alone, no matter how alone you are feeling right now.
So sorry...
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