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Originally Posted by sspp
hi friends
i am so happy i found this site..........really i need a shoulder to lean on........i felt so lonely, but seeing ur discussions here i feel lot better.......this will be my first IVF after break of nearly 1 year from failed IUIs 2 times........
i am completely paying out of pocket...every single penny from savings, is put into this, my DH preferred the shared risk program, since he was not ready to take risk of going cycle by cycle .............and we are selected for shared risk or 80%money back........only catch is they dont give take a baby home promise, but only upto 12 weeks of gestation, later obgyn and RE said his duty is over and shared risk comes to end.........and also i wanted single blastocyst transfer(very very scared of multiples) but he said for shared risk it has to be 2....i had to agree....well i have no choice either.......hope just one healthy one sticks.
i am so scared to start this roller coaster.....i will be doing in august but may be start bcp in july..........i really really need all ur support during this time....i will pray for each one of you here......i really believe in god and left everything in his hands and just hoping for best.................a success at first try and healty single baby and wondeful pregancy and safe delivary.............pray that happens to each one of us here ..............baby dust to u all....
sspp
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Wow - my RE is insisting on only putting 1 back, despite how many we have fertilized. And we're doing Shared Risk, too. It is amazing how different all these docs are! I actually would prefer two, to be honest, because I want as much chance of a baby on the first try as possible. And, I don't really want to have to do this again, ever, so if we get two at once, we're gonna be done! We get babies; babies have siblings. The End.
Maybe we should switch doctors? LOL!
You found a good spot to come for support. All of us here are on your side and will be pulling and praying and
for you as you go through this!
Big hugs and lots and lots of
to you -- and everyone else too!