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Old 06-10-2009, 07:03 PM
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Paula,

I am so very sorry for your loss. I think that the decisions that you and your husband face are difficult to make, but there is no right or wrong choice. I think you just have to work together to come up with a plan that is right for the two of you and stick with it, with no regrets or "what ifs". Whatever baby you end up with will be so meant to be. I too lost a baby (due to ectopic) and now that I have my daughter I know just how meant to be she is. I hope that you find peace in whatever route you go...and good luck to you on your journey to motherhood! (hope it's a short journey for you!)
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TTC #1 for 2.5+ years
ME: (Amy) 28, tubal damage
DH: (Chris) 30, perfect!
3 IUI cycles cancelled due to a # of problems & 1 cycle resulting in BFN
1/12 BFP on natural cycle,ectopic pregnancy ended 1/23/07
1st IVF:
2/7- ER- 17 eggies!!
2/10-ET 2 8-cell
6dp3dt, 7dp3dt hpt= God is so good!
Betas: 2/22= 170, 2/25= 499, 2/29=2857
1st u/s 3/13 (My wedding anniversary!) 140 BEAUTIFUL bpm!
2nd u/s 3/27 - WOW! The growth is amazing! 182 bpm
U/S 5/27/08 GO TEAM BLUE!!!
OMG THEY WERE WRONG! We've switched teams...we're now THINKING PINK!!!


Going for baby #2!
FET October 6th - BFN
I realize I'm blessed beyond measure, and I have tons of faith that God has more blessings in store for me...gotta keep on trying!

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