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Lisa- I'm sorry about your mom not being supportive. There is nothing worse than having a person you love so much say stuff like that. My mom is supportive, she just hates seeing us spend so much money. She keeps telling me also that it's just not meant to be. She is not saying it to say it, but she truly believes it. I'm starting to think the same thing. She is happy we decided to adopt. She said at least we will spend money and get a baby. So she is happy with that. Sometimes people just don't understand what they are saying or don't know what to say or is uncomfortable with the whole situation and doesn't want to upset you so they say nothing. After trying for almost 7 years now I understand and don't get upset anymore. Just irritated. Maybe you should just sit down with your mom and explain how you feel and what she say's is hurting your feelings. Maybe she will think before she say's something next time. Anyway, good luck to you.
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