I'm sure any gift would be wonderful. If it's meaningful to you, that will always show through!
The program I am in is anonymous, and I'm quite certain they don't allow gifts (or really any exchange of any kind-- even information goes through the clinic first), but if it's something you're able/want to do, that's really sweet. I'm sure she will love it.
If you really want to know my personal opinion, I like knowing that the eggs I donate (and subsequent embryos) go ONLY to the person/couple that chose me as a donor. Like I said, the donation is anonymous, but I still prefer the idea of knowing that my genetic material is going to someone who carefully thought out characteristics they wanted for their child (be it physical, or something else they liked in my profile) and made some kind of connection with "me".
Not saying donating the embryos is a bad thing, but those are just my personal thoughts on it. I'm sure others would disagree. Whatever you choose to do, best of luck!
