[JayPic17]

Hello.
I am brand new to this site after suffering a recent loss at 11w 5d on 05/21/09. It was my first pregnancy after trying for only a few short months. There was no medical reason for the loss but the m/c was incomplete and I had to have a D&C.
The loss was/is heartbreaking. The baby was planned for over 2 years, but we only tried to conceive after our wedding early this year.
Following the loss my support has been soo wonderful. I feel beyond lucky to have married such an amazing man and have such supportive friends and family, as many people knew of our little one on the way.
My question is, both my husband and I are ready to exersice the idea of trying again soon. My question is from everyone's experience, how soon is it "ok" physically to try again.
The reason for my confusion is that my husband and I have asked 4 doctors and got different responses (3 while at the hospital and my family doctor at my check up last week)
Two of the 4 doctors told me I can try again right away, that we are at no more risk conceiving right away then waiting a cycle or two. One of them said 3 months and the other said one full cycle.
My problem is that we feel three months to be "too long" for lack of a better way to say it. And the one cycle answer is fine with us, but in the same breath the fact we were told twice "right away" has the thoughts in our minds why wait if we dont have to? I am wondering is that safe? Or do I risk another m/c? Also has anyone conceived that early and what was the result of that pregnancy?
Any help anyone can offer would be very much appreciated.
Best baby wishes to all!!