Hi Everyone I would also like to join this thread I just lost my baby boy 2 weeks ago I was 18 weeks and lost him due to incompetent cervix

. This was my first prenancy we have been TTC for 2+ years but have been together for over 8 years and never tried to prevent getting pregnant.Its just so frustrating.Today I go back to work and am dreading it but feel its better for me than sitting home.I was wondering if anyone feels guilty I know the Drs and everyone say its not my fault and nothing I did caused this but I feel a tremendous amount of guilt b/c it was my body that failed him.He was perfectly healthy.I want to try again but am so nervous that I wont get pregnant again and if I do will be super nervous of losing him/her.My Dr said they would do a cerclage at 12 or 13 weeks and then bedrest for remainder of pregnancy.Well thanks for reading