hi anne:
oops....i am sorry if my message had a negative connotation, i didn't mean to be insensitive and appologize if i was. trust me, it was a long and mulled-over decision that we struggled with but in the end it was just best for us to proceed this way.
we received the test results in april so we have had more time to deal with it but when we first found out i was a wreck. i am feeling better now and i am just trying to remain as hopeful as possible that this will work for us.
