Thread: What NOT to say to someone struggling with IF (or what TO say)
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Old 07-05-2009, 03:01 PM
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Originally Posted by dizyblond
I have a great "what not to say"... it came from my mom of all people...

"Adoption is cheaper"

My mom has said the same thing. I don't know if it was meant to be hurtful, because I can't imagine my own mother deliberately hurting me but soooooo many supportive things could have come out of her mouth.
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ME 31-Irregular cycles, otherwise OK
DH 38- Perfect, but no swimmers-cancer survivor
Married to my best friend since 12-05-1998
TTC #1 for over 9 years
2 Himalayan fur-children
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Zero fertility coverage due to DH's diagnosis
2 IUI's April & May '09 both

#1 IVF w/ICSI

ER 9/12/09 got 21 eggies, 14 mature, 13 fertilized
ET 9/17/09 we transferred 2 (grade 1) blasts
Two blasts made it to freeze, hold on frosties
9-30-09 1st beta (13dp5dt) 405 10-26-09 D&C @ 8weeks

FET sometime in Jan/Feb 2010
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