I am probally 50-60 lbs overweight and my dr had told me that he wanted me to lose 30lbs because he didn't want me to gain any more than 30lbs when I became PG. My husband on the other hand the dr was really rude to him stating that he wasn't even going to talk to him because he was so over weight and that he would probally be dead by the time the kid was 10 anyway.....Overweight or not that was a horrible thing to say.