[vandycamp]

Well Soki, I have to say that I have not told many people about going through all this. I am doing the IVF/ICSI for the first time. I told my mother, my boss (due to missing work), my friend who already went through this, and eventually (but not till 1/2 way through the stim shots) my mother in law. I felt that the least amount of people that new the better. If this works, then I felt then I may tell more, but if it doesnt, I just couldnt bear to have to tell EVERYONE that it failed. I guess it is just me being self conscious about the whole thing. I feel like a failure, and dont want everyone to know. The good thing is that I found this wonderful site with all these unbelievable women who have given me all the support and listening I could need. Just thought I would share my perspective. GOOD LUCK