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we have thought about that very long and hard! If we are not successful this time then we are moving on to the adoption! We decided to adopt newborn this time and later a older child! I was adopted when I was 4 1/2 and my half brother was 5 1/2 we were adopted together!!! my parents had a 13 year old at the time who is my brother! I am closer to him then my natural brother!!! It can be a blessing to adopt a older child I think! There are so many children out there that need a good home! BUT talking from experience as I was a terror, be ready for anything!!! I was so used to being in the system as a child I did any and every thing thinking I would be sent back to a home. I grew out of it in time ( a long long time) and now my mother is one of my best friends and I talk to her daily or I go batty!!!
The best of luck it is a hard decision to make!
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