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Originally Posted by CandM
I know! Everyone around me is getting prego whether they want to or not. I have a friend that called to tell me she is pregant with her 3rd child....my response was "Congratulations" her response "I didn't want to get pregnant, I don't want IT"!!! IT?!?!?! Here's the kicker...she got knocked up by some married guy!!!! She is soooo upset about getting pregnant.
Here we are....loving, caring women who put our bodies through h*ll and spend all of our saved $$$ to get pregnant and we can't!!! It just ain't fair!
Needless to say, I was so angry and upset with her, I quickly ended the conversation and have been avoiding her. She knows that I am TTC and she has the nerve to tell this...ARGHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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My hubby and I are going throught the "bash everyone who has kids that don't deserve kids because they don't take care of them". It makes me so angry seeing so many women having babies who cannot care for them properly and then my hubby and I are spending every penny we have saved on getting pregnant. I hope that one day I can do more in the community to help other women with this problem. However, right now I feel I must focus on myself. My hubby's cousin just had a baby in TN (neither her or her new hubby have jobs, they live in a apartment that his parents pay for) and the in-laws are mad at me cause I did not want to make the 2 hour drive to TN this weekend to see her new baby boy. I wish people would see that I am not being selfish, but I am hurting inside so bad that I cannot put myself through the torture of being around a baby right now. Of course, I went to her baby shower about a month ago and cried all the way home & for about 2 days after. My hubby stood up, when we were called about going to TN for the baby being born, and told his family that we would send our blessings but would not be coming down this last weekend. He said that he could not see me go through the emotional breakdown again. He is great!!!!