[Tanya324]

I tell them life will go on!!! That I have been blessed to be a aunt and if you ask my kids a very good one. I tell them that I want to do everything I can to have a child of my own and we will keep trying with or without help but that my husband and I have been lucky enough to have 8 little ones that may not be our direct flesh but we can see ourselves in them. We will be at highschool gratuations and weddings and watching them all have there own lives with there own family's. I am not saying that I don't sit in my house when my husband is not home and feel just how lonely and quite it is and cry and worry that our home will never be filled with noise but I have a room for my kids and although we are not the kids mom and dad we are the next best thing and that is what helps to cope and go on is that if we were not here they would not have that special place to take off too...... I know how hard it is and to hear that what will you do if you don't have kids well we are all so strong because of all of this That we will go on.